Hello everyone,
This isn't really an issue with me, but it's an issue between my aunt and her daughter (my cousin), who just got pregnant. My cousin is 25, a party girl, and bi - and she's pregnant with a baby boy (father is unknown.) She wants to raise the son with her lesbian partner, but my aunt is very heavily Christian and doesn't support them at all. My aunt says that the boy needs to be raised by a father because he'll starve for that "male role model" his entire life. Since my aunt raised my cousin as a single mom, I guess she knows what she's talking about?
My aunt says that my cousin is going to go to hell because she's bisexual, and I got into a big argument about that, because I just don't agree that someone should be condemned to hell over sexual orientation. But to be honest, I'm kinda torn in two over the issue with the baby - yes, if they're both good parents, lesbians can raise a son. But wouldn't the boy benefit more if he had a real father? Furthermore, is our society really capable at the moment to psychologically support a child with same-sex parents? Ideally it's a nice idea, but realistically I still don't think the US is very accepting of that. :(
Anyway, I don't really know what to do or say. It's become a big deal with the family, and I'm not sure who I stand with - my cousin or my aunt? What do you guys think?