Aroace is a scarey one to pick too cause on the surface you sound like an old man telling everyone to get off the grass, but even with sex and romance removed, there's so much more to love. Avenues that the cinematic universe doesn't have short hand for, and ways of living that don't require you to be alone or a crazy cat lady. Those nuances interest me a lot in the stage I'm in right now ^^ I hope you're comfortable in your sexuality now <3